Mothering Emma Kate, Jack, & Liam

Liam Christopher

I had no idea that I would go into labor that Saturday. September 12th was a beautiful day. I had dropped off Emma Kate and her friend Ariana at Marlee’s birthday party, stopped by Target on my way home, and then was rushing to head back out the door for pick-up. We had plans to go to Wilkes to visit that day, and I was rushing to get stuff packed for our day trip. And then… unexpectedly, I started losing blood. Sweet Jack brought me the phone and said, “Mommy, you better call Dr. Peacock.” He was worried… so was I. Dr. Peacock said to immediately leave for the hospital… do not pass Go, do not collect $200, do not pack your hospital bags. So, after a little deliberation (can’t I just pack one small bag?), I headed out the door to drive myself to the hospital. Chris went to pick up the girls and then made arrangements to have Miss Whitney take Emma Kate and Jack to her house. Kathy (Ariana’s mom) and Malinda both offered words of encouragement on my drive to the hospital. Mom actually made it to the hospital before Chris, who was scrambling to get the kids ready and to pack our hospital bags. Labor lesson #1: always have your bags packed in advance. Upon arriving at the hospital, I was connected to monitors and was told that my vitals were fine and that baby was doing great. Dr. Peacock came to check on me later that evening, and after convincing him to do an ultrasound, he said baby looked perfect and he didn’t think there was anything to be concerned about. So, I spent an uneventful, sleepless night in the hospital. Labor lesson #2: hospital beds are NOT comfortable. Sunday morning I was disappointed to realize that my contractions were still irregular and pretty far apart (translation- it seemed I wasn’t making any progress). I remained connected to monitors and an IV and became more impatient by the minute. Dr. Peacock finally came strolling in about 4:00 that afternoon. We were fully prepared for him to tell me that I would be going home and put on bed rest for the next week or two. He did a quick exam and then informed me that I was 6 cm and in active labor. I looked at him in disbelief. This was active labor? Labor lesson #3: irregular, unnoticed contractions can make cervical change. At this point, I was given a portable monitor and told to move around to encourage baby to become engaged. Somehow, after walking and bouncing on a birthing ball, I was still making progress (and still not feeling the contractions). At 8 cm, Dr. Peacock broke my water, and I stayed in bed to wait out the next 2 cm. Up until 10 cm, labor was a breeze- I virtually felt no labor pains and was just eager to meet my new little guy. And then… at 10 cm… the pain increased significantly. It was 8:oo pm and I was surrounded by family- Chris, Mom, Dad, Malinda, Josh, and Jocie were all there (Grammy was at our house taking care of Emma Kate and Jack). Pretty suddenly, I realized that there was intense pressure and I began to rethink my choice to have a natural birthing experience. Labor lesson #4: epidurals are a good thing. After summoning Dr. Peacock (who suddenly appeared with an entourage of helpers), we were ready to push. After choosing to go sans epidural, I asked Dr. Peacock about other pain relief options- he simply smiled and said I needed to do the work. The next 45 minutes were excruciating.

At 9:11 pm on Sunday, September 13, Liam Christopher was born! He was absolutely perfect, and right from the beginning, it was obvious he was ours. He looked, at birth, just like big brother Jack. And, he reminded me of Emma Kate as well. He weighed 6 pounds, 15 ounces, and was 20 inches long. His Apgar scores were 8 and 9. From the beginning, he has been an easy baby… sleeping and nursing like a champ, with a sweet, satisfied disposition. Labor lesson #5: newborns are little miracles.

Emma Kate and Jack stayed home from school the following day to meet their new baby brother. They both immediately fell in love with little Liam- holding and loving on him. Baby Liam’s other hospital visitors included Mawmaw, Pawpaw, Aunt Malinda, Uncle Josh, Cousin Jocie, Grammy, Miss Joanna, Miss Whitney, Miss Shannon, Mr. Ned and Jane.

Thank you to all our family and friends who have shared in Liam Christopher’s birth. From delicious vegan vittles to sweet new baby outfits, baby supplies, and loaned baby gear- we appreciate all of your thoughtfulness. We have been blessed with lots of visitors upon arriving home, and we look forward to sharing our new arrival with all of you soon :)

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More pictures from Liam’s birthday…

School days

Emma Kate is now a second grader and Jack is entering his last year of preschool! It’s hard to believe they are so big! EK has smoothly made the transition into her new classroom with new friends. She ended a loop at the close of first grade, leaving the friends she had been with for two years. She is much more resilient than I am and is looking forward to making new friends and learning new things this year. I am proud of my little guy and how easy it was for him to transition into his new 4-year-old classroom. He is once again happy to return to school and is already singing new songs and talking about some of the activities he is doing. We are fortunate to have such wonderful learning environments for both kids.

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Jack-fish

I love it when Emma Kate really steps into her big sister role. And, she has been doing just that this week while helping Jack learn to do new things in the pool. I have been amazed by how quickly Jack’s swimming has progressed this summer. He is now totally self-sufficient in the pool… swimming underwater, treading water, swimming above water, jumping from the side, and swimming to the bottom for dive sticks. Emma Kate taught him to jump from the pool’s side yesterday. Check him out:

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And, of course, EK needed a little video time:

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I love my little swimmers! (And my newest iphone that allows me to video them swimming and directly upload to youtube!).

Family time

We took a long awaited trip to Pinehurst to visit Grammy and Grand Wink a couple weekends ago. We were anxious to see their new (actually quite old, historic) home in downtown Southern Pines. Before heading to their house, we met Grammy at the best park ever: Camelot. Fortunately, my friend and former colleague, Kristy and her family were also able to meet us there. It was fun to catch up and see her beautiful little girls.

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And, last weekend, we took a trip to Wilkesboro to have some baby Jocie time!

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Fun with friends

It is amazing how quickly this summer has flown by; Emma Kate starts back to school next week and we are certainly not ready! This summer, the kids have spent a lot of time just playing and being kids (something I think is pretty important). A couple of highlights from the last couple of weeks:

Thanks to Savannah’s mommy, Miss Carol, Emma Kate participated in a book club this summer. The girls read four stories and took turns hosting book club meetings. Although it was a struggle to motivate my resistant child to spend so much time reading, we had a lot of fun discussing the stories and EK enjoyed participating in all the fun book club activities. Emma Kate’s book choice was the first of the Sleepover Squad series; in this picture, the girls are dressed in their pjs making cupcakes (just like the characters in the story):

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The kids and I went to visit Miss Evelyn and Nickolas and paid our first visit to the Children’s Museum in Winston. We spent 3 hours there, and the kids had a lot of fun. Climbing Jack’s beanstalk was a favorite activity:

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We had to say goodbye to our dear friends and neighbors, the Rileys. We will certainly miss them! Before leaving, Miss Debbie thought to get a picture of some of the first kids on the street:

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My little guy underwater!

This is definitely the summer of swimming for Jack! He began the summer by first refusing his swim vest, then learning to keep himself afloat a bit, and has just recently become comfortable swimming underwater. He loves his new goggles. Take a look:

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Summer fun

I would like to blame my lack of blogging on a busy summer- but truly it could better be attributed to just plain neglect. We are enjoying the laziness of summer- in particular, not having something on our agenda each day. The kids have both participated in summer camps and the three of us have spent a lot of time at the pool (while Chris is working hard). We’ve visited friends, enjoyed time with family, and spent lots of time just playing!

A few photos from the past few weeks:

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Playing in the backyard

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Emma Kate, Nickolas, and Jack at Tanglewood Park

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Celebrating Gina’s engagement and visit to North Carolina- congratulations, Gina!

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Uncle Patrick’s graduation- congratulations, Patrick!

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Jack’s final days of 3-year old preschool- thanks to Miss Kim and Miss Julie for a wonderful year!

My rising second grader

I can’t believe Emma Kate has finished two years of school and will be a second grader next month! What I love about this age (7) is the idea of having a big girl and little girl wrapped into one. My bikini-clad, toe-nail painted, independent big girl still sleeps with her sock monkey and crawls into bed with Mommy and Daddy at night. Emma Kate’s bedroom is testimony to this duality as well, with a mix of Disney princess pictures, Hannah Montana posters, stuffed animals, and nail polish kits.

EK’s newly painted room:
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EK had another great year at CSD (formerly known as CCS). She finished the year as a strong (but stubborn reader) who enjoys exercising her brain and is still curious about the world around her. EK’s class presented its final play of the year- focusing on preserving the rainforest. The play was based on Lynne Cherry’s The Great Kapok Tree. A few pictures from the production:

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And, Emma Kate with her 1st grade teachers, Mrs. Harrison and Miss Jill:

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One of EK’s newest big girl accomplishments is learning to play the piano. I think this is especially endearing to me because it’s something I did as a child. She seems to be a natural at it, even composing her own songs!

Emma Kate’s first piano recital:
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Emma after her first piano recital

Coffee with Chris

Enjoying coffee with dear hubby in downtown Asheville… what a vegan haven!

It’s a …

BOY!

I think Mother’s Day is the perfect day to announce that our new little one is another boy :) We had our 18-week ultrasound two weeks ago, and the baby looks absolutely perfect. He is measuring right on schedule, and our due date- according to this latest ultrasound- is September 24 (Mom’s birthday).

Emma Kate isn’t particularly thrilled about the prospect of another baby brother, but I think she will come around. Jack is super excited… I can only imagine he thinks baby brother will come into the world ready to play Star Wars :)

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One day, baby brother will not be too thrilled about these pics! Can you see how this baby is another little Chris?! He looks just like Emma Kate and Jack did in utero… funny.